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Chapter Summaries

Chapter 1: PUTTING THE CART BEFORE THE HORSE: Describes the process of change you will go through as you read the book, from your current level of shyness to an assertive, active dater. Directly related, how to effectively use the self-analysis questions to quickly bring about these changes.
Chapter 2: BET YOU'RE NOT AS SHY AS I ONCE WAS: The author recounts some personal experiences that reveal how his severe shyness got its origin, thereby helping you realize if he can overcome his shyness, SO CAN YOU!
Chapter 3: BE YOUR BEST: How to present the best you at all times to make a great first impression. Tips on how to make your body look its best quickly are discussed, included are grooming tips and advice on personal hygiene care that will help get you noticed.
Chapter 4: NICE GUY vs GENTLEMAN: Describes the characteristics of each type of guy and how they are perceived by women. The author describes how he made the change from enice guyi to egentlemani, thereby making you aware of how to make the change so you donit miss out on the next opportunity and the reward that follows.
Chapter 5: PLAY THE NUMBERS: Describes the importance of getting out socially and the benefits of being at the eright placesi at the iright times.i Helps you select the eright placesi and iright timesi for you to start meeting women now.
Chapter 6: GREEN MEANS GO: Explains what signs to look for, obvious and subtle, that indicate when a female is interested in you. Topics discussed are body language, understanding icontext of situationi evaluations and how it relates to a womanis signals, the value of physical feature questions, and the importance of realizing you must seize the opportunity now, so another guy doesnet beat you to the punch.
Chapter 7: HANDLING THE FEAR OF THE FIRST APPROACH: How to quickly evaluate an situation to generate an opportunity to make the first verbal contact a success. What you can do to help yourself overcome the fear of rejection so you will approach her. Different techniques to conversation initiation are discussed, along with what else to say and when to say it.
Chapter 8: ASKING FOR A DATE: Takes a look at the different scenarios in which you will encounter a woman you want to ask out, complete stranger, acquaintance and friend. For each scenario how and when to effective approach her to ask for a date. The four question process that leads to success. Tips to minimize the chance of refusal and what to do if you are too nervous to talk smoothly.
Chapter 9: THE DATE: The goal of the entire date is determined and how to ensure it will be achieved. Dois and donits are discussed thoroughly. How to properly prepare for the date. How to monitor her comfort level with you. What to do to keep the conversation flowing.
Chapter 10: CLOSING THE DEAL: Different approaches to get her back to your place alone are discussed. Planning ahead to set the right environment to get her in the mood. How to read her reactions to know when to make a imove.i Tactics that enable you to advance beyond just "making out," that lead both of you into the bedroom.
Chapter 11: SLEEPING TOGETHER THE FIRST TIME, HOW TO GUARANTEE A SECOND TIME: Deals with all aspects of sex from the male point of view. Tips to help you feel better about penis size. Different ways to overcome the embarrassment of premature ejaculation, one way discussed is the "Erectric Glide" technique. Putting foreplay to work for you and what you can do to be at the top of her lover list. How to improve your endurance once both of you are engaged in intercourse.
Chapter 12: RULE NUMBER ONE!: Tells what you need to do from here with the information you have learned and the exercises you have completed. Indicates how your friends will react as your interactions with women improve over time. Finally, the author's reason for writing the book and how to get in touch with him.