Frequently Asked Questions

Why is this book a good self-help book for shy men?
A good self-help book is one that gets you to take action to make a desired change. This book helps you to take the focus off the fear of rejection, freeing you to take action.
How does the author describe the content matter of the book?
It can best be described as a blend of several influences. It is part Loveline (TV Show) for the advice that is given; part Penthouse Letters for the true sexual exeriences I describe; part motivation speaker for the encouragement provided and part locker room humor which best describes a good portion of the humor included in the book. (FYI: The book is not affiliated with the Loveline TV Show or Penthouse Letters the magazine.)
The book is only 71 pages long, is this a negative aspect of the book?
The backbone of the book consists of the exercises at the end of each chapter which help the reader develope their own personal plan of action. The rest of the book helps the reader learn from their own past exepriences and from the author's experiences, while at the same time having a few laughs to help complete the exercises. This is effectively done in 71 pages. A book's value is not determined by the length of the book, rather it is determined by how informative and helpful the content matter is to the reader.
Is this book solely for shy men?
The focus of the book includes many topics to help shy men overcome their anxiety to approach, date and develop a satisfying, sexual relationship with a woman. There is plenty of information that even the most confident stud may find a few tips to help improve his technique. I always felt when I purchased a self-help book that if I learned just one new thing to help me, then it was worth it!
How does one know if he is a shy man?
A shy man is one who lets his fear of rejection, or fear of women, prevent him from doing what he WANTS to do, initiate a relationship with a particular woman. All men know deep down inside if they are shy or not, most are shy to some degree. The real question is how does a family member or friend know if their son, brother or friend is shy? The signs are pretty obvious. Does he rarely or never go out on dates? Does he avoid social situations like dances or parties? In social situations does he resist talking to females he does not know? A family member or friend who recognizes any of these signs can help buy giving him this book as a gift.
Why is this book different then other books on dating?
Would you rather read the 'findings' of a doctor who researched and studied other people, or would you prefer to read the thought processes and changes made by someone who actually overcame his own shyness? That is why this book is different.
Is this book just to help guys get laid?
The information revealed in this book is similar to the powers possessed by a superhero or villain. You can use the power for 'good,' to find a steady girlfriend and possibly a mate for life; or you can use it for 'evil,' to bang as many babes as possible. I don't judge my readers, I let them decide for themselves.
Is the book for teenagers under 18 years old?
Having been extremely shy during my teenage years, I wish I had read a book like this when I was thirteen. As a parent, if you think your son has some difficulties socially with females, then this book will help. However, the book does contain some graphic sexual content and advice that some parents my find unsuitable for their teenage son. Most of the strong sexual content is contained in chapters ten and eleven. I would advise a parent to read the book and tear out chapters ten and eleven and give it to their son when he turns eighteen. However, most teenagers will probably find a way to get the book anyway, so this is one way a parent could start the communication process to talk to their son about important topics such as safe sex.